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“This reader-friendly book is a masterful guide for parents. With great
gentleness and humility, Mindful Discipline weaves together the rigor
of science, the wisdom of reflection, and decades of clinical
experience, offering parents one of the most exceptional road maps on
how to raise happy, resilient, and emotionally healthy children.”
—Andrew Weil, MD,author of Spontaneous Happiness and
Eight Weeks to Optimum Health
“If you raise your children with respect for who they are, nourishing
compassion, clarity, and wise limits, they will bloom and blossom. The
tools for mindfully doing so are here in these pages.”
—Jack Kornfield, PhD, author of A Path with Heart
“I’m deeply impressed and inspired by what [Shapiro and White] are
offering the world! It fills such an essential niche, and moves forward
our understanding of ‘how to’ in an important way.”
—Tara Brach, PhD,
author of
Radical Acceptance
and
True Refuge
“This intelligent, tender, and beautifully written book helps parents tap
into their inner wisdom and create the optimal emotional environment
for their child’s growth and development. Loaded with powerful
exercises grounded in clinical expertise and scientific theory, this book
will help all of us navigate the path of parenting with greater ease,
clarity, and grace.”
—Kristin Neff, PhD,
associate professor of human
development and culture at the University of Texas at
Austin and author of Self-Compassion
“Coming from an expert on mindfulness and a leading pediatrician,
this deeply wise book shows parents how to nourish both self-
discipline and self-worth inside the children they love. Grounded in
research, full of personal examples, and loaded with down-to-earth
suggestions, this book is a gem.”
—Rick Hanson, PhD, author of Hardwiring Happiness
“Mindful
Discipline
should be read by every parent. This book
contains the operating instructions for family life that none of us
received in school. Twenty-five years ago mindfulness saved my life.
Now it informs all of my actions, including the way I am with my
children.”
—Noah Levine,
author of
Dharma Punx
and
Refuge
Recovery
“Shauna Shapiro and Chris White have created a wonderful integration
of the power of mindful awareness and the insights from studies of
child development and the brain to lovingly guide us to a more
rewarding and effective way of being as parents. The science of
attachment reveals that the most robust predictor of our child’s
development is how we have come to make sense of our lives from the
inside out. This book beautifully illuminates how the previously
independent fields of attachment and of mindfulness actually share
common ground—that knowing yourself is the best gift you can give
to your children. An effective way of achieving this parental presence
is through mindfulness, and the stories, ideas, and exercises of Mindful
Discipline
offer a fabulous guide to creating the deep and receptive
internal knowing that will empower your children to become resilient,
reflective, and compassionate beings themselves. What better gift can
you offer of yourself to your child, and the world?”
—Daniel J. Siegel, MD, clinical professor at the University
of California, Los Angeles, school of medicine; author of
Brainstorm
and
The Mindful Brain;
and coauthor of
No-
Drama Discipline, Parenting from the Inside Out, and The
Whole-Brain Child
“This finely and sensitively written book points to the fragility and
resilience of a child’s soul and demonstrates so clearly how in need
each child is of an equally fragile and resilient adult’s guidance. An
adult, however, having been on the Earth much longer, has been able
to add experience to the fragility and resilience and thus becomes the
author of the child’s life until he or she is experienced enough to
become the author himself or herself. This beautiful book is a
wonderful guide to parents who wish to lovingly, mindfully, and
clearly accompany their children at the beginning of their life
journey.”
—Meinir Davies,
management and teaching team
coordinator at the New Village School, Sausalito, CA
“Mindful
Discipline
is the perfect guide for conscious parents and
teachers. Grounded in solid neuroscience, it shows how to be loving
and remain centered, while teaching children to develop their own
internal wisdom and good hearts. This book is a gift!”
—James Baraz, cofounder of Spirit Rock Meditation Center
and coauthor of Awakening Joy: 10 Steps to Happiness
“Mindful
Discipline
is an intelligent and creative approach to the
omnipresent challenge of parenting: how to be kind and loving yet
firm and in control. I was struck by the multiple levels of authority the
authors drew upon: deep scholarship, personal struggles with
parenting, and hard-earned meditative insight.”
—Fred Luskin, PhD,
director of the Stanford Forgiveness
Project and author of Forgive for Good
“The wonderful, authoritative, generous, and warm-hearted guidance
offered by these two skilled parents, educators, and researchers
confirms that the medium is indeed the message. This book, unique in
a world of instruction manuals, engages, encourages, and inspires
parents both old and new to trust their own inherent goodness and
kindness to connect with the impulse to flourish that is part of every
child’s potential, so that parenting and growing up—the most basic of
experiences—become a sacred joy! What a treasure this book will be
to so many people!”
—Sylvia Boorstein,
author of
Happiness Is an Inside Job:
Practicing for a Joyful Life
“From the opening pages,
Mindful Discipline
is practical, authentic,
and compassionate. The authors simultaneously support our deepest
desires as parents and acknowledge the messy realities of parenting.
They offer guiding principles, specific practices, and, most
importantly, heartfelt compassion for all of us engaged in the moment-
to-moment process of creating healthy, loving relationships with our
children. This book is a valuable resource for me personally, and for
the parents, children, and families I serve.”
—Amy Saltzman MD,author ofA Still Quiet Place
“Drawing from their own experience as parents, plus many great
teachers of our time, White and Shapiro give us invaluable insights
and personal practices to understand and embody the process of
parenting in order to raise loving, conscious humans. This in-depth and
thoughtful book weaves the principles of parenting with precise
instructions for self-inquiry so that both parent and child thrive in the
relationship.”
—Lindy
Woodard, MD,
Pediatric Alternatives, Mill
Valley, CA
“The wisdom in this book rings true for me on so many levels—as a
psychologist, scientist, mindfulness scholar, and most of all, a parent.
In a gentle and accessible manner, Shapiro and White use both science
and wisdom to explain exactly how to hold firm boundaries and loving
limits while being authentic, present, and compassionate—blending
these ingredients into a recipe for creating a harmonious home and
being the kind of parent all of us aspire to be.”
—Cassandra
Vieten, PhD,
president of the Institute of
Noetic Sciences and author of Mindful Motherhood
“Whether parents have an established mindfulness practice or are new
to this ancient wisdom,
Mindful Discipline
readers will gain a fresh
and confident approach to parenting and a life based in mindfulness.
This book’s easy-to-read chapters offer valuable parenting advice
rooted in psychology and practical exercises readers can use to take
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